
This will be my last Collage Diva blog post for a week or so. I'm heading on a much needed vacation. I'm traveling with my two trusted companions, my camera and notebook. I'm eager to settle into a new spot each day overlooking gorgeous views and writing my story. I actually feel really giddy. I can't wait to see what has been swirling in my head for a year now hit the page. A few friends have heard bits and pieces of the story and I delight each time I tell it. I look forward to the day when this story is published and I can travel across the globe to tell the story to even more people.
I pulled out a copy of Photo Play to find a figure to use for today's mermaid collage. The issue provided me with much more than a lovely subject. While flipping through I stopped short on an article written by actor Bob Wagner.
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It was the sequence of photos along the bottom of the page that first caught my eye. It was the title that drew me in to read the entire piece.
"What's going to happen tomorrow?" I used to worry.
Until I realized I was letting life go by. So...
Today - I'm Living It Up!

His positive outlook mirrors my own. He put into words in this article my own sentiments. Here are a few tidbits:
"If I give the impression that I'm enjoying life every minute, it's strictly on the level. I am. And when I say it's a gift, I'm not being flip. The ability to make the most of each day is a gift given to everyone. It's our job to learn to recognize it - to take advantage of it. I'll be the first to admit that it isn't always easy."
Bob shares some scenarios that we all may recognize. Here's one:
"Take the fellow who says, "Good grief, what a day! If it were only over!"
He's decided that tomorrow is bound to be better than today. But then some hours later, when tomorrow finally becomes his today, he doesn't give it a chance. Right away he begins living for the day after that. This boy just can't win. He'll never find contentment, because he hasn't learned to live in the present. He spends his entire life waiting, but he does nothing today to insure that his tomorrow actually will be better. I might so far as to say that he hasn't learned to live, period!"
I love the advice he was given when he was worrying about his future as an actor after winning an award. He was worried about living up to this recognition and staying on top. His friend brought him back to his senses with these words:
"Simmer down, boy," he drawled. "Take one thing at a time. You just play your scenes for all they're worth today, and you won't have to be in such a stew about the future."
He shares this fitting quote by Thomas Carlyle:
"Our main business is not to see what lies dimly at a distance, but to do what lies clearly at hand."
Here's just one more quote from the article:
"I do say that the best way to prepare for your tomorrow is to concentrate on doing today's work well. So think and plan. But don't clutter up your todays with unnecessary worries. It prevents your accomplishing anything. You have to remember that uncertainties are a part of life. And wouldn't life be dull without them? Think about them, prepare for them if you can, but don't let them make ulcer bait of you."
As many of you know I'm heading into a new chapter in my life. I've received so many beautiful and touching e-mails and comments on my blog post. Many have commented on how well I handle change. When I came across this article, I couldn't help but share it with you. There is so much in life that is out of our control. What we can do, is to make a choice to seize this day, savor each moment, and do so with a smile.
I have no interest in becoming ulcer bait or worry stew - no, this mermaid will be smiling all week at her harbor side perch.
Until my return,
Namaste,
Kathryn, Collage Diva
(Article Credit: "Today - I'm Living It Up!" by Bob Wagner, PhotoPlay, November 1954.)